July 29th, 2015
Having a successful date is solemnly subject to a man’s ability to blend Modern awareness of societal expectations and old world etiquette. The eventual trump card that makes a lady fall for you and sticks with you requires a personalized approach based on the lady’s personality and her mental and emotional state. Nevertheless the ultimate decider is what you as a man brings to the table. Here are some tips to date a girl.
- Always meet somewhere you will feel comfortable
You probably think that you will be a gentleman by allowing her to decide where to meet, but most ladies like to see their man in control. Additionally, women love surprises too. And although dating can be a daunting experience, you can help calm your nerves by planning to meet in a familiar place. This helps you feel more comfortable. Avoid your Saturday night joint, as bumping into your friends could be distracting and she might not spend enough time with you.
- Be confident
One of the most important qualities that women look for in a man is confidence. If you are shy, start practicing by talking to different people that you do not know. Or whenever you meet her, always talk about a topic that you are enthusiastic about. She is likely to sense your confidence when you talk passionately about it. Most men are also shy about their physical appearance. Nevertheless, you may not be with a 6-pack or 6ft tall, but it’s more appealing to women when you show that you are comfortable in your skin and you are happy being you!
- Treat her nice
Forget the cliché that good guys finish last or that girls want bad boys. Every girl enjoys being treated nicely – not that you should bend over backwards to please her, but simple things like getting the door for her or offering a hand to support her as she gets out of the car. You know those shoes ladies wear are not stable and they will appreciate your understanding that. Just don’t overdo the “niceness.”
- Less is more
This time it is not about clothing, it is about time. Don’t prolong your date. When you have just started dating, you are not yet comfortable around each other and so it is best not to spend too much time on a date. Choose an activity that may last a couple of hours. This is why movies are a great choice. What would have been awkward silence is masked by an entertaining movie on screen and after that you just may have something to talk about as you escort her home or if you still have more to talk about then a coffee or light dinner will do. By limiting the time you spend together you leave her wanting more and she will be happy to go out on another date.
- Don’t force it
You may think she is the prettiest girl you have ever seen and you just cannot bear the thought of not dating her but truth be told, you need to be compatible for it to succeed if you realize there is just nothing you have in common and none of you seems to be having fun, it is best to just let it go – that is one bad date in your books, move on and find another who will be more suited for you.